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Nothing feels happier than your cat sitting on your lap. Nothing can surpass the pleasure of a furball, choosing to relax on top of you. This is a special kind of bond which does wonders for the cat owner. It lowers your blood pressure and is good for your cat too. Do remember that not all cats sit on their owners. Some turn out to be lap cats. Whether a cat will sit on its owner depends on the individual cat.
Warmth and liking
A cat wants a few fundamental needs before they take the
decision to sit on a person's lap. They can also choose to sit on your clothes.
The easiest and the most logical answer as to why cats sit on your lap is that
you are warm. Felines love the warmth and the laps of humans are exactly
that-warm and inviting to any kitty.
This does not mean cats will sit on anyone's lap. They sit
on people which they like. Cats like to make a connection with people they
like, and sometimes they want to be petted too. This is important to the cat as
petting resembles their mom's grooming. It is thus logical that cats want to be
petted by people they like. A few cats also knead when they sit on a person's
lap. The action of kneading simulates the animal's neo-natal days when kittens
did that to mothers to stimulate the flow of milk. The behavior can be regarded
as a self-comforting one, like purring.
Smell and the feeling of safety
Your cat also sits on you as it feels safe. The cat sitting
on your lap is a relaxed cat, safe in the knowledge that you are there to
protect it if something happens. A good smell is also a major factor. Your cat
likes how you smell and thus wants to be near you. If you are not present in
the house, the kitty will find out a piece of cloth with your scent on it and
sit on that piece. If you visit an animal shelter, your cat will know about it
instantly by smelling you. The animal can then avoid you for the time being. Do
not feel sad.
Other than the smell, the
texture of clothes also matter. Cats do not like to sit on plastic products but
love soft fleece and cotton. This holds true for complete strangers as well.
Anyone wearing a soft cotton cloth may expect a cat to sit on the lap.
Conversely, if you wish to avoid any cat, wear a raincoat or a jacket made of
rayon. Cats only sit on people they believe they could trust. If a cat sits on
you, it means the animal trusts you.